I have kept these rants inside for too long.
Do : answer them patiently. One person can not know everything, including you.
Don't : smack your forehead and ask them back "Haa? Tak tauu?". That'll make the person asking feel very stupid & ashamed of themselves for not knowing a thing that apparently every single living soul on Earth should know.
If a friend refuses to hang out with you ;
Do : understand their situation. Or know the fact that maybe it's your behaviour that makes them avoid you.
Don't : be pushy.
If a friend has became waaaaaaaaay slimmer than they use to be and you're jealous of her success ;
Do : keep quiet.
Don't : diss them by saying stupid things that makes it obvious that you really wanna be in her shoes and it also makes it apparent that you need to loss weight.
If a friend is having a relationship with someone attractive ;
Do : keep quiet.
Don't : diss them. You're alone for a reason, buddy.
If a friend is in distress and tells you about it ;
Do : have a little sympathy and say something comforting.
Don't : type "Hahaha" and complain about that yammering friend to another friend.
If a friend disagree with you about something ;
Do : be mature and understand that even friends can't agree on EVERYTHING
Don't : judge that person's choice.
Additional rants :
It's better for you not to preach something about Islam if you yourself are a judgemental, jealous and angry person.
Don't make it apparent that you're actually not happy for someone, you'll make no one look bad but yourself.
Choose your words before you spat them out.
Be a little sensitive with what you say to people. I know it's hard to do with your stone cold heart, but please try.
So called "friends".
P/S : It's not about just one person. :)
